Saturday, May 16, 2009

The Baby Chick... or Transistions are painful.

I got this from a friend on the 'Net. It was very appropriate for me at the time and I surely love to share whatever life lessons Heavenly Father is teaching me.

The Chick Being Born

When in the midst of great change, it is helpful to remember how a chick is born. From the view of the chick, it is a terrifying struggle. Confined and curled in a dark shell, half-formed, the chick eats all its food and stretches to the contours of its shell. It begins to feel hungry and cramped. Eventually, the chick begins to starve and feels suffocated by the ever-shrinking space of its world.


Finally, its own growth begins to crack the shell, and the world as the chick knows it is coming to an end. Its sky is falling. As the chick wriggles through the cracks, it begins to eat its shell. In that moment - growing but fragile, starving and cramped, its world breaking - the chick must feel like it is dying. yet once everything it has relied on falls away, the chick is born. It doesn't die, but falls into the world.


The lesson is profound. Transformation always involves the falling away of things we have relied on, and we are left with a feeling that the world as we know it is coming to an end, because it is.
Yet the chick offers us the wisdom that the way to be born while still alive is to eat our own shell. When faced with great change - in self, in relationship, in our sense of calling - we somehow must take in all that has enclosed us, nurtured us, incubated us, so when the new life is upon us, the old is within us.

I like this picture. It beautifully illustrates that what kept me safe and protected in the past is limited in its nourishment from the inside. What once nurtured life can become too confining and lead to suffocation. That doesn't mean I have to despise the shell though. Like the chick I can internalize the past and find strength from that part of my journey for the exciting road that leads ahead!

4 comments:

Nana said...

Dawney, very beautiful. Now, you must come over and help me get this whole thing off the blog on paper so that I can store it in my treasure book? I love you,

G Dawney said...

I'll come over on Tues or Weds. I love you too.

Candice said...

I've heard that analogy before. You wrote about it so beautifully. I didn't think, though, that the chick actually ATE the shell. I knew it had to struggle to get out. I like the picture too.

G Dawney said...

Candice, I didn't write this. It comes from a book, "The Book of Awakening" by Mark Nepo. The last paragraph was written by my friend. It's his reflections on the reading. The whole thing has helped me remember that I am not alone in this world and that there are other people who are going through the same kinds of experiences that I am. Very helpful.